I like big butts..

I like big butts and I can not lie
You other brothers can't deny
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
And a round thing in your face
You get sprung
Wanna pull up tough
Cuz you notice that butt was stuffed
Deep in the jeans she's wearing
I'm hooked and I can't stop staring
Oh, baby I wanna get with ya
And take your picture..

Sir Mix-A-Lot tells it like it is and I have to say, I agree with him.  I like big butts.  I like a gal with junk in her trunk.  Some cushion for the pushin.  OK, you catch my drift.

I like big everything really (and no not in the way you are thinking).  I mean I like it when someone has a bit of meat on their bone.  Ive never dated anyone 'skinny.'  None of the people I have been out with I would class as overweight, but nor are they skinny either.  I cannot think of anything worse then hugging someone and being able to feel their bones or fucking someone and feeling their hips dig into you.  Ugh.  I like the feel of soft skin and hugs that feel like they are going to engulf you.  I'm no chubby chaser nor do I have a problem with a partner being on the larger side either.

Ive often been asked by partners if I think they are overweight.  Its always a resounding "no" (I've never thought a partner was overweight) followed up by "I really couldn't care less what you weigh, I'm with you for you" (equally true).

There have been guys and girls I have been with that really appreciate a buff body and I have never really understood that.  Maybe its because as a teenager my best friend had an eating disorder and therefore I have bad associations with skinniness and dieting.  I have also had partners with eating problems.  Getting someone who has an eating disorder to understand that you love them no matter what and they are not fat is frustrating and upsetting in equal measure.

My girlfriend is a fitness fanatic, going to the gym at least once a day and often going for 15 mile jogs.  It puts me to shame, the most exercise I ever do is walking 20 minutes to work everyday.  I used to be really fit and healthy when I was at uni, playing football once a week and regularly going to the gym.  In my childhood I was in all the teams at school, netball, hockey and most notably I was the only girl in an all boys football team.  I won a trophy for my achievements in football (although realistically I think I got it for having the balls to be the only girl in an all boys football team).  These days, I don't have the time, or more to the point, I'd rather spend my spare time drinking.

So off she goes to the gym, getting slimmer as time goes on.  It makes me happy that she has such drive to do something and I respect that she looks after herself so well.  However, it wouldn't matter to me if she ever put on weight either. 

Regardless of the abs that are forming I will always love her big ol tush (which will hopefully remain) the most :-)